HAPPY TOGETHER...

When we talk about being in love (although I am not now hahaha), there are just ways to keep a relationship. Loving each other, care of each other, trust and understanding are essential in a relationship. Being with our loved one, time will past more meaningful.


As time goes by, relationships tend to be a little normal, couples just have to be creative to get the relationship going ;) See if these tips make sense to you...


1 - Happy Hour Together at the nearest pub or even at a cafe....


2 - Be a DJ - compile list of songs that you both enjoy and play them, enjoy the moment :)


3 - Cooking together - doesn't matter what the dishes are, the 'process' is fun!


4 - Go OUTDOOR to a Theme Park and be kids of the day!


5 - Join your colleagues' outing, doesn't matter where (better than stay at home, doing nothing, looking at each other)


6 - Register in a language class or a dance class together, it's awesome that you have a partner who can practise either the language or the dance with you ...


7 - Drink your favorite drink in bed (coffee, tea.. doesn't really matter what, or even eat a piece of cake together in bed is romantic)


8 - Head massage each other while sharing jokes...


9 - Challenge your partner - try monopoly, WII, online games (be angry birds) hahaha


10 - Create a 'vacation moment' at home - squeeze some fresh juices, watch the rain, or even sleep on the floor, looking up the ceiling while doing nothing at all)


11 - Spontaneous activity - go for bowling, karaoke and watch some movies back-to-back... cool!


12 - Get up early and watch the sunrise while having a cup of your favorite drink...


13 - Read together - pick your magazines and start reading while sharing the tips


14 - Extreme activities, why not? Try roller coasters rides, flying fox or rock climbing...


15 - Quiet talk to each other, ask for opinion and share thoughts... it's a good thing to do sometimes (but of course, not daily)


16 - Watch a live show together or even soccer


17 - Get new furnitures or new look for the home


18 - Give each other a nick name for the day, don't use darling or honey, try something else hahaha


19 - Share stories and embarrassing moments in life and laugh about it!


20 - Join a marathon run, visit charity homes...


21 - Write love notes and paste everywhere at home... if your partner is away, try some sweet sms...


22- Wear pyjamas the whole day! Be as relax as you can at home...


23 - MANJA with your partner - take off his socks, put a blanket on him to keep him warm... or even bring him water when he is into the tv or computer at home... so sweet!


Well, since this year I am 23, hahahaha so I will stop at point no. 23 ....


CHEERS, happy day everyday!

BEING 23 again...

Hmmm, every year, when the days hit AUGUST, it reminds me that I am going to be 23 years old soon, LOL. Can't believe that time flies and life's good!


Having a supportive mom, lovely boys, caring friends, wonderful colleagues and many others, including my aunties, uncles, cousins and grandpa whom I miss so much!


When it comes to my birthday month, many things come in mind, wanted to write down what's next to do (just like new year resolution), want to find out what have I done so far, and what memories that I have along the way, regardless happy or sad ones...


As we grow older (or wiser hahaha), we will tend to have lesser friends by our side, celebrating our birthday, each year, you will have lesser, as what I can see. We had at least 20 friends cebrating our 15-year old birthday, 30 friends celebrating our 18-year old birthday and when we hit 21 year-old, the figure drops ....


Well, I am going to be 23 this year, amazingly! Hahaha! Not getting old, just a little bit of wrinkles and rougher hands... well, that's ok, we get old naturally, but most important is happily :)


In fact, on our birthday (when we are single), we hope to have a nice dinner with our buddies, or a gila-party at karaoke with our K-kakis... blowing candles on a cake, getting gifts that we always dream of (not a car or a house - but at least a piece of birthday card :) ... and some wants to have a holiday elsewhere to reward themselves ... I still remember when I was celebrating my 21st birthday (real age at 21), my friends bought me a cake, that cake, consists of 10 slices of different cakes... that was one of the most memorable moments. Also, 4 years back, my colleagues bought a cake for a few August babies, that has a cartoon of me on it, that's was lovely, can't forget those great times....


We probably has forgotten that our mothers suffered on the day we were born, they also deserve a good dinner and if we can afford, a small gift, as a token of appreciation to our mothers.


How is it like to be at the age of 23? (Those who knows me, will know this is a 'real' age of mine) hahahaha.... It's wonderful! Life has been good. I thank God every morning and before I sleep, I prayed for good health for my family and well-being of my boys. I count my blessings, at least 2 times a day, and I always thank God for giving me great buddies, amazing colleagues, and a fantastic superior... (I am not that religious, but I just want to thank God)


As for the coming year, I hope to do more charity. I know, it could be challenging for me, as when I go to visit homes, I have to drag friends who have cars to go along hahaha, because I can't bring all the goodies with my bare hands... and this time, I will do it differently. Time to get a good camera (hopefully by end of this month) and start a 'new' way of charity. I will snap pictures of the poor families, blind families and give them printed copies as remembrance... how wonderful this can be...


Other than that, I think, if possible, I want to take up a dancing class. I love to dance, but I always leave work late, just have to find time to do something that I always wanted to do ;)


What else? Hmmm maybe something for my family, just can't figure out what yet! hahaha, but I successfully bought new wardrobe, which makes the room looks more organized. Perhaps new mattress for my boy :)


Looking forward great times with my loved ones, many good returns to them, they've been wonderful and always there for me!

CHEERS, Happy 23rd birthday to me!